tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9156334464585894857.post4317796573346009083..comments2023-10-25T05:30:54.507-04:00Comments on Oh Get A Grip!: Bring Out the Comfy Chair!Ashe Barkerhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03390519279886657608noreply@blogger.comBlogger8125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9156334464585894857.post-11501359727709387212011-10-05T12:37:10.785-04:002011-10-05T12:37:10.785-04:00Lisabet - sometimes, I worry about the places my b...Lisabet - sometimes, I worry about the places my brain goes.Kathleen Bradeanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06347913255760493335noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9156334464585894857.post-71860605925004777172011-10-05T10:30:32.578-04:002011-10-05T10:30:32.578-04:00Hi, Kathleen,
I definitely agree with your food c...Hi, Kathleen,<br /><br />I definitely agree with your food comments. I remember one experiment many years ago with whipped cream... some kinds of being sticky are sexy, but this wasn't in the least.<br /><br />(Loved the toe fuck vignette, btw!)Lisabet Saraihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05162514190572269660noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9156334464585894857.post-44095715507920394312011-10-04T11:37:12.982-04:002011-10-04T11:37:12.982-04:00Nan - food is one thing. I get how flavors and tex...Nan - food is one thing. I get how flavors and textures can be erotic. It's the chocolate syrup (usually cheap stuff, which tastes terrible anyway) being poured over body parts and whipped cream (which one friend advises from experience not to get on your cock as it can cause a nasty infection - not sexy) that fails to turn me on. And not just because of the mess. It's a way to mask the real flavor of the body part being tasted, and I think it's a pity that people are scared to smell or taste like a human or have been taught to think a clean lover is still too icky to lick without a sauce. But mostly, it's about laundry.Kathleen Bradeanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06347913255760493335noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9156334464585894857.post-78919961025476977362011-10-04T11:25:02.383-04:002011-10-04T11:25:02.383-04:00Well, I have to disagree about the food thing, but...Well, I have to disagree about the food thing, but then, I'm also a pastry chef and I think food is very erotic all by itself. <br /><br />A number of years ago I talked to another erotic writer about fisting, which I didn't get at all. I had recently had a baby and the whole idea just hurt, in a way I wasn't looking to go through again. But since then, I was able to see how it is erotic for other people. <br /><br />For me, I love finding out what turns people on; that is just so sexy.Nan Anoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9156334464585894857.post-57173129721155483502011-10-03T13:39:12.750-04:002011-10-03T13:39:12.750-04:00BA - I thought that editors were supposed to tortu...BA - I thought that editors were supposed to torture writers, not the other way around. But now that you mention it...Kathleen Bradeanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06347913255760493335noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9156334464585894857.post-91845178214564946162011-10-03T13:11:21.452-04:002011-10-03T13:11:21.452-04:00Balloons? Really? Huh. Do me a favor, lovely. Do N...Balloons? Really? Huh. Do me a favor, lovely. Do NOT tell either Julia or Sean? They'll write it just so I have to edit it.<br /><br />(And I have a hard-core clown phobia, so no. Just. No.)BA Tortugahttp://www.batortuga.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9156334464585894857.post-13719358589639646522011-10-03T09:34:49.887-04:002011-10-03T09:34:49.887-04:00Jake - It's good to know that I'm not the ...Jake - It's good to know that I'm not the only one who doens't get the food thing.Kathleen Bradeanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06347913255760493335noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9156334464585894857.post-21980901143060307462011-10-03T06:07:15.261-04:002011-10-03T06:07:15.261-04:00When "9 1/2 Weeks" came out years and ye...When "9 1/2 Weeks" came out years and years ago, everyone talked about the food scene, where Mickey Rourke fed Kim Bassinger the food while she was blindfolded. It was supposed to be <em>so erotic</em>, but after watching it, it left me cold. "There must be something more to this that I'm missing," I thought, so I tried re-enacting the whole thing with my girlfriend at the time, and you know what? Meh...that's what. I'm with you on the cleanup aspect of whipped cream, chocolate syrup, etc. as well. IMHO, food and sex are two great pleasures that are best appreciated separately!<br /><br />And frankly, I can skip balloons, too.Jakehttp://leathercuffsandsilkenbonds.comnoreply@blogger.com