tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9156334464585894857.post4432652398691559790..comments2023-10-25T05:30:54.507-04:00Comments on Oh Get A Grip!: Not Pretending to Be NaughtyAshe Barkerhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03390519279886657608noreply@blogger.comBlogger8125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9156334464585894857.post-52370284874108902022015-09-10T08:10:38.802-04:002015-09-10T08:10:38.802-04:00I think a quiet kind of outlaw is an awesome sort ...I think a quiet kind of outlaw is an awesome sort of outlaw to be! I seem to be cursed with an obedient heart and an outlaw's desires. I have my own quiet outlaw ways, too, but I'm not yet to the place where I feel totally fine about them.Annabeth Leonghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07455191827664110878noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9156334464585894857.post-35535838130913825442015-09-10T08:09:17.806-04:002015-09-10T08:09:17.806-04:00Haha. The masochist's dilemma. Punishment isn&...Haha. The masochist's dilemma. Punishment isn't punishment when it feels great...Annabeth Leonghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07455191827664110878noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9156334464585894857.post-2358186126368778012015-09-10T08:08:47.695-04:002015-09-10T08:08:47.695-04:00Thanks, Jean! I think there are things that never ...Thanks, Jean! I think there are things that never get old for certain people. I know I have my favorite fantasies that work time and again, and I never seem to wear them out.Annabeth Leonghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07455191827664110878noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9156334464585894857.post-22295052707446069972015-09-10T08:08:07.905-04:002015-09-10T08:08:07.905-04:00Thanks, Daddy. I think there are BDSM players who ...Thanks, Daddy. I think there are BDSM players who love breaking rules. This is my personal take on it, related to my own fears and feelings about punishment.Annabeth Leonghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07455191827664110878noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9156334464585894857.post-5256287377023035072015-08-31T07:24:09.662-04:002015-08-31T07:24:09.662-04:00I empathize with your comments about your childhoo...I empathize with your comments about your childhood dedication to pleasing others. I was exactly the same way. I never considered deliberately breaking the rules. I tried my very best to be "good", and nothing hurt more than to have my parents or some other individual I wanted to impress suggest that I'd fallen short.<br /><br />That's why I find it astounding that I've turned out such an outlaw. A quiet outlaw, but nevertheless, someone who has broken a lot of the so-called rules.<br /><br />With regard to BDSM, the naughty sub scenario has never appealed to me. Sometimes it's play--sometimes there's laughter--but at the core it's too serious for pretending.<br />Lisabet Saraihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05162514190572269660noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9156334464585894857.post-72456845290558734702015-08-28T23:11:55.463-04:002015-08-28T23:11:55.463-04:00I knew someone who wanted spanking and nothing but...I knew someone who wanted spanking and nothing but spanking, and preferred an unjust punishment scenario. She didn't want to be submissive, which I quite understand, so she wanted to be able to feel resentful of unfair punishment while still enjoying the sensations. At least that's what she said she wanted, but at a certain point she'd start chanting "Thank you!" That didn't sound very resentful to me.Sacchi Greenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10801164916418570059noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9156334464585894857.post-59120324491901461732015-08-28T10:49:57.690-04:002015-08-28T10:49:57.690-04:00This is logical and intriguing, Annabeth. I've...This is logical and intriguing, Annabeth. I've sometimes wondered how a drama of "naughtiness, disappointment, love, and acceptance" could work for anyone if it is played out over and over again. I'm glad you found what works for you.Jean Robertahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08805088081675965859noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9156334464585894857.post-39058667045658869492015-08-27T19:01:03.101-04:002015-08-27T19:01:03.101-04:00A powerful post, Annabeth. Maybe this is why I don...A powerful post, Annabeth. Maybe this is why I don't engage in BDSM. I always found it easy and exciting to break rules. Found a certain satisfaction in doing something nobody else would attempt if I could do it without getting caught.Daddy Xhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12927663248424944119noreply@blogger.com