tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9156334464585894857.post4476721848163384792..comments2023-10-25T05:30:54.507-04:00Comments on Oh Get A Grip!: The First TimeAshe Barkerhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03390519279886657608noreply@blogger.comBlogger7125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9156334464585894857.post-57685191090421080872009-12-20T19:17:24.099-05:002009-12-20T19:17:24.099-05:00Thank you Lisabet and Ashley. Thanks for reading, ...Thank you Lisabet and Ashley. Thanks for reading, and thanks for having me as a guest.Jicky Smithnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9156334464585894857.post-84992979227722299472009-12-20T02:56:44.234-05:002009-12-20T02:56:44.234-05:00Jicky,
Beautiful writing, and a wonderful conclus...Jicky,<br /><br />Beautiful writing, and a wonderful conclusion to this week's topic. Thank you.<br /><br />AshAshley Listerhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11997769708965362938noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9156334464585894857.post-69384628724680062662009-12-19T23:20:56.015-05:002009-12-19T23:20:56.015-05:00Dear Jicky,
Thank you for sharing your words and ...Dear Jicky,<br /><br />Thank you for sharing your words and feelings with us once again here at the Grip.<br /><br />This is beautiful and true, as well as arousing. The aspect that really got to me was the distance she feels from her family, from her previous life, when she re-enters her house. She has journeyed a million miles in those few hours with her lover, but no one else knows this.<br /><br />A gorgeous contribution. Thanks again!<br /><br />Warmly,<br />LisabetLisabet Saraihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05162514190572269660noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9156334464585894857.post-68434974189083835042009-12-19T22:19:05.285-05:002009-12-19T22:19:05.285-05:00Thanks, Jude. Come to think of it, I had a similar...Thanks, Jude. Come to think of it, I had a similar feeling of unreadiness, each time my children were born, though accompanied with great joy. Helen captured those memories so vividly.Jicky Smithnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9156334464585894857.post-40810302910336754782009-12-19T12:44:56.525-05:002009-12-19T12:44:56.525-05:00Jicky,
An amazing piece. You nailed that feeling ...Jicky,<br /><br />An amazing piece. You nailed that feeling of 'I've completely changed and I'm not ready for it'. At sixteen or whatever age one looses her cherry, that feeling of totally being something new, or entering a new period in your life, and no matter how much you think you're ready, knowing inside you're not. Yup, brought back memories. <br /><br />Nicely done!<br /><br />HugsJude Masonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14067166768734750026noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9156334464585894857.post-9453701216653434922009-12-19T12:29:41.282-05:002009-12-19T12:29:41.282-05:00Thanks , Garce for your warm comments. This has be...Thanks , Garce for your warm comments. This has been a rough week for me, and I only had a chance to skim through the blog. I was amazed at the variety of offerings, while I took the idea of "First Time" as a literal sexual story, it was gratifying to read each person's take on the first time, from being published to birthing and points in between. <br /><br />In a world of infinite experiences, we can always look forward to the "First Time" of something. That is a comforting thought.Jicky Smithnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9156334464585894857.post-85209139344499123312009-12-19T11:05:36.000-05:002009-12-19T11:05:36.000-05:00Hi Jicky!
I've read this piece several times ...Hi Jicky!<br /><br />I've read this piece several times and it still gets to me. There's just something about this kind of first time, that has power for me. It has soul. I just love it every time I go over it. Like my own story there is this element of never being able to go back, that the world has changed somehow. For the man, there is the fear of failing to be the great lover. I guess for the woman there is the fear that you will become a mother and your life will change before you are ready for it. Always the feeling that you can never get backto who you were before. The "little death".<br /><br />Thank you! I just love this.<br /><br />GarceGarceushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11160407485298015371noreply@blogger.com