tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9156334464585894857.post5808156675743448155..comments2023-10-25T05:30:54.507-04:00Comments on Oh Get A Grip!: Negotiation or Seduction? #BDSM #negotiation #nostalgiaAshe Barkerhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03390519279886657608noreply@blogger.comBlogger6125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9156334464585894857.post-44643914905385696642018-02-24T22:43:54.889-05:002018-02-24T22:43:54.889-05:00I was thinking this morning about how little exper...I was thinking this morning about how little experience I have with BDSM or negotiation (compared, for instance, with you), yet how thoroughly it has colored my life and imagination. Kind of scary, actually.Lisabet Saraihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05162514190572269660noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9156334464585894857.post-33719615469368157162018-02-22T20:10:43.278-05:002018-02-22T20:10:43.278-05:00Lisabet, I'm always touched when you share abo...Lisabet, I'm always touched when you share about this deeply personal experience. It's wild how those certain relationships can have such a lifelong echoAnnabeth Leonghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07455191827664110878noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9156334464585894857.post-14876491803355592512018-02-18T00:18:07.804-05:002018-02-18T00:18:07.804-05:00If done right....!
Thanks, Sacchi!If done right....!<br /><br />Thanks, Sacchi!Lisabet Saraihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05162514190572269660noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9156334464585894857.post-16992431952485446582018-02-16T22:28:30.772-05:002018-02-16T22:28:30.772-05:00Your letters reinforce my long-held impression tha...Your letters reinforce my long-held impression that lengthy negotiations are not only foreplay, but a type of erotica story in themselves. Sacchi Greenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10801164916418570059noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9156334464585894857.post-39840131444763936442018-02-14T06:46:09.790-05:002018-02-14T06:46:09.790-05:00I wish I still had the letters...but in some ways ...I wish I still had the letters...but in some ways I'm glad I don't. They were/are dangerous. Plus I've come to believe that when we live in the past, we run the risk of having the present pass us by.Lisabet Saraihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05162514190572269660noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9156334464585894857.post-60456315131339530132018-02-12T12:12:44.244-05:002018-02-12T12:12:44.244-05:00Perhaps this is why I'm a borderline hoarder. ...Perhaps this is why I'm a borderline hoarder. When we do something that can't be undone, such as destroying those letters, oftentimes we'll regret it. Over the years our thinking processes evolve, and what we think true today can be something else entirely tomorrow, considering basic human nostalgia.Daddy Xhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12927663248424944119noreply@blogger.com