tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9156334464585894857.post600761189065166871..comments2023-10-25T05:30:54.507-04:00Comments on Oh Get A Grip!: UnforgivableAshe Barkerhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03390519279886657608noreply@blogger.comBlogger6125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9156334464585894857.post-51662819637509823862013-10-12T09:21:40.786-04:002013-10-12T09:21:40.786-04:00Yes - I woke up simultaneously horrified and arous...Yes - I woke up simultaneously horrified and aroused. In the dream, I was the victim (and I was not necessarily a lesbian). I couldn't understand how this despicable creature could turn me on.Lisabet Saraihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05162514190572269660noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9156334464585894857.post-84156861764037392162013-10-12T09:20:35.436-04:002013-10-12T09:20:35.436-04:00I couldn't post it anywhere but here at the Gr...I couldn't post it anywhere but here at the Grip! <br /><br />At one point I was considering writing this for a anthology (about confessions, in fact). I queried the editor - she wouldn't touch it with a ten foot pole!Lisabet Saraihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05162514190572269660noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9156334464585894857.post-43305543328075959032013-10-12T09:19:33.759-04:002013-10-12T09:19:33.759-04:00It's a dirty little secret. Doesn't make t...It's a dirty little secret. Doesn't make the rape any less of a violation. Perhaps, as in this story, it becomes even more shattering.Lisabet Saraihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05162514190572269660noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9156334464585894857.post-30917044896127969172013-10-01T20:19:56.607-04:002013-10-01T20:19:56.607-04:00Hi Lisabet!
That must have been one hell of a dre...Hi Lisabet!<br /><br />That must have been one hell of a dream. It reminds me of Remittance Girl's "Gaijin" novel which caused quite a stir because of the orgasmic rape scene in that one as well. I think for a woman, as terrible a violation of body, soul and personhood as rape is, and there is at least one woman on this list (formerly two) who has actually been raped, the rebellious orgasm must be something that would tear at the soul. I think women have a very ambivalent relationship with the notion of rape, more than people admit. I've read a couple of Nancy Friday's thoughtful books about women's sexual fantasies, and by far the most universal fantasy women have is of being raped. No woman wants to be raped in real life, definitely not, but women seem to like to fantasize about it. I have no explanation for that.<br /><br />Garce<br /> Garceushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11160407485298015371noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9156334464585894857.post-24459598940982676432013-09-30T12:59:32.590-04:002013-09-30T12:59:32.590-04:00Fine story. And I'm glad to see that we don...Fine story. And I'm glad to see that we don't have to write about our own absolutely true confessions. No way.Sacchi Greenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10801164916418570059noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9156334464585894857.post-17865441438994574272013-09-30T12:49:24.913-04:002013-09-30T12:49:24.913-04:00I've heard true stories from women who have be... I've heard true stories from women who have been raped and had an orgasm during the ordeal. It must be quite a challenge to overcome such an experience. I guess the fear and excitement of the situation somehow piles up on the physical manipulations. Gawwwwddd- can't imagine. Good story, Lisabet. Daddy Xhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12927663248424944119noreply@blogger.com