tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9156334464585894857.post6506665509080049090..comments2023-10-25T05:30:54.507-04:00Comments on Oh Get A Grip!: "Did your father ever... touch you?"Ashe Barkerhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03390519279886657608noreply@blogger.comBlogger12125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9156334464585894857.post-31373724499507764242015-06-04T17:22:05.758-04:002015-06-04T17:22:05.758-04:00Amen to that, mister!Amen to that, mister!Fiona McGierhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13495707848048468428noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9156334464585894857.post-65046108927121041112015-05-23T17:35:18.536-04:002015-05-23T17:35:18.536-04:00My reaction to this dude (at least in this vignett...My reaction to this dude (at least in this vignette) can basically be summarized by adding about a million "u"s to the beginning of uuugh... I'm not sure which part I love (don't love) the most: the part where he thinks that liking sex means something has to be wrong with you, or the part where he flat out acts like he knows about your own life better than you do...Annabeth Leonghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07455191827664110878noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9156334464585894857.post-79480860323657870712015-05-17T15:44:38.452-04:002015-05-17T15:44:38.452-04:00Great post, Giselle. Like you and Sacchi, I wonder...Great post, Giselle. Like you and Sacchi, I wondered while reading that conversation whether he liked imagining you being sexually abused. Even if he never actually wanted to have some kind of sexual interaction with a child, he might have liked thinking of you as vulnerable and damaged as a result. Jean Robertahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08805088081675965859noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9156334464585894857.post-51895017620663326772015-05-15T19:46:44.806-04:002015-05-15T19:46:44.806-04:00Guys.
Guys are so dumb.
This was well written by t...Guys.<br />Guys are so dumb.<br />This was well written by the way, I really loved the sound of it, and I think its partly because I identified with the guy. No I'm not an adulterer and I've never boffed young ladies at any age, but what i identify with is his giving self destructive speeches. Guys. We do that. We want to show off how sophisticated we are, get up on our high horse and pontificate until women who liked us five minutes ago want to scream at us. we give women self serving information they don;t need and don;t want and spoil things. Oh god have I done that. Its definitely a guy thing.<br /><br />garce<br />Garceushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11160407485298015371noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9156334464585894857.post-34647096904305800502015-05-15T11:02:33.706-04:002015-05-15T11:02:33.706-04:00I've been told by women that they'd been s...I've been told by women that they'd been sexually abused, but that's not a question anybody but a professional should ask. Certainly not a lover.Daddy Xhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12927663248424944119noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9156334464585894857.post-79573478671927195192015-05-15T00:45:42.496-04:002015-05-15T00:45:42.496-04:00I wondered that myself. I wondered that myself. Giselle Renardehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15955755448116234634noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9156334464585894857.post-6026493827298361002015-05-14T21:56:22.685-04:002015-05-14T21:56:22.685-04:00I wonder if he might even have been getting off on...I wonder if he might even have been getting off on the idea of your father abusing you. Or of being an abusive father himself. one hopes he wasn't actually a father.Sacchi Greenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10801164916418570059noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9156334464585894857.post-85826844804069326842015-05-14T20:24:04.654-04:002015-05-14T20:24:04.654-04:00I think this must be a straight man's problem!...I think this must be a straight man's problem! LOL. An eager sex partner is nothing to complain about!JPhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10305127219838784688noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9156334464585894857.post-34353907492203561422015-05-14T18:10:55.012-04:002015-05-14T18:10:55.012-04:00Jeremy's so smaaaart.Jeremy's so smaaaart.Giselle Renardehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15955755448116234634noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9156334464585894857.post-86629984959411215232015-05-14T09:21:15.432-04:002015-05-14T09:21:15.432-04:00Great insight, Jeremy.Great insight, Jeremy.Lisabet Saraihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05162514190572269660noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9156334464585894857.post-28030498851134706802015-05-14T09:20:55.506-04:002015-05-14T09:20:55.506-04:00It's that double bind they get us with every t...It's that double bind they get us with every time, Giselle. If you decide you don't want to have sex, you're a frigid bitch. On the other hand, if you actually like sex, if you meet a guy half-way, if you take the initiative, then you must be a filthy, skanky slut, because after all, nice girls don't do that, do they? <br /><br />I'm lucky. Guys might have been thinking this about me, but they rarely if ever said it. <br /><br />I would have kicked that bastard out of my bed right then and there. Or maybe I wouldn't have, because good sex definitely can make up for a significant amount of badness in a relationship, at least for a while.<br />Lisabet Saraihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05162514190572269660noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9156334464585894857.post-66343070979331100382015-05-14T08:04:14.781-04:002015-05-14T08:04:14.781-04:00CONSCIENCE: So... we're sneaking around, decei...CONSCIENCE: So... we're sneaking around, deceiving our wife so we can have sex on a regular basis with this woman whose very existence we don't otherwise acknowledge. Do you think maybe there's something wrong here?<br /><br />MAN: Yes, Conscience, you're right! There <i>is</i> something wrong! It's my mistress—she's a SLUT to do this. She must be DAMAGED or something!Jeremy Edwardshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01980177431018869829noreply@blogger.com