tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9156334464585894857.post7167385772066812273..comments2023-10-25T05:30:54.507-04:00Comments on Oh Get A Grip!: A Bit of WankeryAshe Barkerhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03390519279886657608noreply@blogger.comBlogger5125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9156334464585894857.post-63312777826926478072010-05-25T09:20:00.351-04:002010-05-25T09:20:00.351-04:00thanks for the kind words allthanks for the kind words allKathleen Bradeanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06347913255760493335noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9156334464585894857.post-60156583167318191452010-05-24T20:34:02.674-04:002010-05-24T20:34:02.674-04:00Hello, Kathleen,
I like your point, which your ex...Hello, Kathleen,<br /><br />I like your point, which your excerpt illustrates well. "Chill" in some sense is not about solo sex--but it's about selfish sex, using a person merely to fulfill one's own fantasy. Of course, sometimes fantasies mesh between the "user" and the "used". Or in fact each one things s/he is using the other.<br /><br />Your Bible story reminded me of Helen Madden's recent tale in the ERWA gallery, about the young man with the fuck doll who meets a girl he likes and then tailors the doll to look like the real woman. <br /><br />Solo sex might be easier. But it seems to me that it is bound be be less satisfying.<br /><br />Great post!<br /><br />Warmly,<br />LisabetLisabet Saraihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05162514190572269660noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9156334464585894857.post-71329438473235954042010-05-24T16:43:10.357-04:002010-05-24T16:43:10.357-04:00Kathleen!
You have that clipping from "Chill...Kathleen!<br /><br />You have that clipping from "Chill"! Very cool, literally. Actully to do justice to the story you have to include sometime the part about the preparation.<br /><br />The story of Onan in the Bible is even weirder than people think. In spite of the phrase "Onanism" its not even about masturbation. Onan's brother died and according to The Will of God he is supposed to have sex with his widowed sister in law so Onan can have a lineal heir. Not exactly an onerous task. I'd take it. He's happy to get it on with her but doesn;t want his brother to have a son, so he pulls out when he comes - the earliest form of birth control -and "spilled his seed on the ground". Facials hadn't been invented yet. So God struck him dead for that. Served him right.<br /><br />GarceGarceushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11160407485298015371noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9156334464585894857.post-56140223456228791652010-05-24T13:37:05.466-04:002010-05-24T13:37:05.466-04:00Ash - I can't wait to read what you have to sa...Ash - I can't wait to read what you have to say.Kathleen Bradeanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06347913255760493335noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9156334464585894857.post-6938298957307887042010-05-24T11:57:47.100-04:002010-05-24T11:57:47.100-04:00Kathleen,
It's spooky how similar our thought...Kathleen,<br /><br />It's spooky how similar our thoughts are.<br /><br />Great post. And a fantastic snippet of Chill.<br /><br />Best,<br /><br />AshAshley Listerhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11997769708965362938noreply@blogger.com