tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9156334464585894857.post8046968375440357298..comments2023-10-25T05:30:54.507-04:00Comments on Oh Get A Grip!: Indulging My Own NeedsAshe Barkerhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03390519279886657608noreply@blogger.comBlogger4125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9156334464585894857.post-53962886196864818002011-12-21T14:47:32.208-05:002011-12-21T14:47:32.208-05:00Kathleen, thanks for including me as a guest blogg...Kathleen, thanks for including me as a guest blogger here. I really like what this group does. <br />Lisabeth, I think that we deny ourselves too much in middle age, waiting for the right time, like when the kids have left, retirement, etc. But now is the right time. We need to be more mindful of the present.<br />Garce, I suspect that the male establishment would be shocked at how sexual mature women can be. I hope to do something about informing them.<br /><br />NanNan Anoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9156334464585894857.post-64071391027468542992011-12-18T08:54:33.339-05:002011-12-18T08:54:33.339-05:00Hi Nan!
Welcome to OGG!
That's interesting w...Hi Nan!<br /><br />Welcome to OGG!<br /><br />That's interesting what you've said here about desire changing as we get older. Our culture usually associates desires with young people, and maybe older men, but women are beginning to take back some of the territory. I think the ultimate turn on would be a mature woman with strongly developed sexual desires. But they're such a rarity in fiction.<br /><br />GArceGarceushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11160407485298015371noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9156334464585894857.post-30062225477589501842011-12-17T21:47:57.037-05:002011-12-17T21:47:57.037-05:00Nan,
Welcome to the Grip, and thanks for your won...Nan,<br /><br />Welcome to the Grip, and thanks for your wonderful, wise post. <br /><br />It's funny - when you're younger, indulgence is a matter of impulse. As one gets older, one actually has to deliberately choose to indulge oneself, to make time for pleasure. This seems almost contradictory, but you're right - it works.Lisabet Saraihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05162514190572269660noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9156334464585894857.post-3834519504781999782011-12-17T12:31:16.075-05:002011-12-17T12:31:16.075-05:00Nan - welcome to the Grip! I'm nodding my head...Nan - welcome to the Grip! I'm nodding my head as I read what you wrote, because it really hits home. We push our needs aside too much, especially when we get older and hornier.Kathleen Bradeanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06347913255760493335noreply@blogger.com