tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9156334464585894857.post2292141868230099445..comments2023-10-25T05:30:54.507-04:00Comments on Oh Get A Grip!: It’s Not You, It’s Me…Ashe Barkerhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03390519279886657608noreply@blogger.comBlogger5125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9156334464585894857.post-68931806406843902612011-09-26T10:01:46.051-04:002011-09-26T10:01:46.051-04:00Many thanks all for your kind comments, and for in...Many thanks all for your kind comments, and for inviting me to post!<br /><br />EvanE. Morahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00136733418067130311noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9156334464585894857.post-61729608396796174182011-09-25T03:51:30.139-04:002011-09-25T03:51:30.139-04:00Dear Evan,
Having read your wonderful post, I'...Dear Evan,<br /><br />Having read your wonderful post, I'm sure about two things:<br /><br />- You've hit the nail on the head. The intense parts we borrow from our lovers and ease into our stories are our own reactions, the way our lovers affect us - not who they really are. We can glimpse that, barely, and reflect our perceptions into the prose, but it IS us, not them.<br /><br />- I've got to read more of your work! The excerpts are stunning.<br /><br />Hugs,<br />LisabetLisabet Saraihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05162514190572269660noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9156334464585894857.post-48169526703366926072011-09-24T23:04:38.913-04:002011-09-24T23:04:38.913-04:00That's interesting and cathartic that you are ...That's interesting and cathartic that you are able to bring your lover into your work, including the difficult things like that incident with the crazy guy that made your life hard for a while. I'm not able to write about my wife, there just doesn't seem to be a way. I wonder if that's a woman thing.<br /><br />Thanks for being our guest this week! Come by often.<br /><br />GarceGarceushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11160407485298015371noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9156334464585894857.post-68092466630340662122011-09-24T15:47:47.568-04:002011-09-24T15:47:47.568-04:00Interesting post! I wondered about your inspiratio...Interesting post! I wondered about your inspiration for "A Cop's Wife." (I reviewed Lesbian Cops for 2 sites.)I'm glad your relationship is so inspiring!Jean Robertahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08805088081675965859noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9156334464585894857.post-59096433851711656452011-09-24T12:58:11.131-04:002011-09-24T12:58:11.131-04:00Evan - Thank you for sharing this. It's a pity...Evan - Thank you for sharing this. It's a pity that you couldn't make it to the EAA Conference, but thank you for suggesting the Writing About Your Sex Life panel. It went really well.Kathleen Bradeanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06347913255760493335noreply@blogger.com