tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9156334464585894857.post4454740894424736675..comments2023-10-25T05:30:54.507-04:00Comments on Oh Get A Grip!: Waiting Outside the DoorAshe Barkerhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03390519279886657608noreply@blogger.comBlogger7125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9156334464585894857.post-35560532264043815422011-08-29T21:16:31.407-04:002011-08-29T21:16:31.407-04:00Lisabet - I think I took you up on the challenge....Lisabet - I think I took you up on the challenge. I've written a story that i think is all anticipation. Kind of dark stuff though, hope it doesn;t piss people off, if anybody reads it. You'll see it here in a couple days.<br /><br />GarceGarceushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11160407485298015371noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9156334464585894857.post-28465648285116512502011-08-29T20:37:45.705-04:002011-08-29T20:37:45.705-04:00Foreplay is often the best part of sex, especially...Foreplay is often the best part of sex, especially mental foreplay. Anticipation!Naomi Bellinahttp://www.naomibellina.weebly.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9156334464585894857.post-10313673375293599802011-08-29T16:46:07.214-04:002011-08-29T16:46:07.214-04:00Lisabet, using excerpts to illustrate the concept ...Lisabet, using excerpts to illustrate the concept is a really effective strategy.Jean Robertahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08805088081675965859noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9156334464585894857.post-62867526577495860412011-08-29T08:10:09.881-04:002011-08-29T08:10:09.881-04:00Thanks, Garce,
Actually, I think you can write an...Thanks, Garce,<br /><br />Actually, I think you can write an erotic story that's nothing BUT anticipation. There doesn't have to be any fulfillment at all. I know that style of erotica has become less popular, but I really admire an author who can evoke premonitory desire that is an end in itself.Lisabet Saraihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05162514190572269660noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9156334464585894857.post-57677237378489365142011-08-29T06:00:28.386-04:002011-08-29T06:00:28.386-04:00Hi Lisabet!
I think you've hit on the key of ...Hi Lisabet!<br /><br />I think you've hit on the key of this topic early on, which is that aniticipation makes s story as well as a real world encounter unique from simply the depiction of sex. Its the difference between using someones body as a masturbation toy and actually making love to them. Some of the best, and funniest erotica stories I've read are about people, usaually a guy, anticipating losing their virginity or some thing and just in a fever of expectation and then the real thing is a disaster. It was kind of like that for me and probably a lot of guys. But for women in stories its also the emotional build up of expectation and the thrill of experiencing a new person.<br /><br />And as you in BDSM it is the anticipation of the whip more than the whip itself that thrills.<br /><br />Absolutely the key. Good post.<br /><br />GarceGarceushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11160407485298015371noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9156334464585894857.post-74355379099101112572011-08-29T03:10:15.693-04:002011-08-29T03:10:15.693-04:00Hi, Kathleen,
I'm sure you'll have additi...Hi, Kathleen,<br /><br />I'm sure you'll have additional insights!Lisabet Saraihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05162514190572269660noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9156334464585894857.post-71902260166958761842011-08-28T15:56:21.183-04:002011-08-28T15:56:21.183-04:00We seem to be thinking a lot alike on this subject...We seem to be thinking a lot alike on this subject.Kathleen Bradeanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06347913255760493335noreply@blogger.com