tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9156334464585894857.post705347719956542401..comments2023-10-25T05:30:54.507-04:00Comments on Oh Get A Grip!: What, Me Guilty?Ashe Barkerhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03390519279886657608noreply@blogger.comBlogger5125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9156334464585894857.post-6075651466474051372013-12-01T00:36:27.020-05:002013-12-01T00:36:27.020-05:00Great piece, Giselle. As one might expect, I don&#...Great piece, Giselle. As one might expect, I don't sympathize with Lawrence. He reminds me that there are some people who could use a good wallop of guilt upside the head, but it would probably slide right off. Sacchi Greenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10801164916418570059noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9156334464585894857.post-18145838812916065852013-11-30T03:44:17.305-05:002013-11-30T03:44:17.305-05:00Let me add, by the way, that this is a fabulous an...Let me add, by the way, that this is a fabulous and truly devastating excerpt, Giselle. Amazingly intense!Lisabet Saraihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05162514190572269660noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9156334464585894857.post-53775628607440080572013-11-30T03:40:56.391-05:002013-11-30T03:40:56.391-05:00I'm a woman, and I wrestle with this issue all...I'm a woman, and I wrestle with this issue all the time. I love two men, my husband and my master. If I spend some time or thought on one, should I tell the other? Why make them crazy? <br /><br />Of course maybe this is different, because they know about one another. They've even met (it was oil and water...) I keep quiet about one, though, when I'm focused on the other. Why should I make things worse?<br />Lisabet Saraihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05162514190572269660noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9156334464585894857.post-72521034099692446722013-11-28T11:43:06.245-05:002013-11-28T11:43:06.245-05:00I'd have to side with Lawrence and Garce as we...I'd have to side with Lawrence and Garce as well. But I have an 'outie' too. The last thing I'd want is to hurt or disappoint anyone I love. But we all stray. As a long-time bartender, (who knew how to keep his mouth shut) I know by experience that what people don't know know about lots of things won't hurt them. Not just talking about sex here. Now, if or when they do suspect, watch out!<br /><br />None of the shit I've pulled would have flown if I was honest. If I were to be honest, I'd hurt people. But most of my transgressions were with people who also understood the scene. It was to be fun. No falling in love, no allowing any dependency to develop. See my post next Wednesday.Daddy Xhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12927663248424944119noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9156334464585894857.post-23372700372846855542013-11-28T09:03:09.912-05:002013-11-28T09:03:09.912-05:00Hi Giselle!
This is so raw. I feel it. Actually...Hi Giselle!<br /><br />This is so raw. I feel it. Actually I found myself sympathizing with Lawrence which most guys would. I'm more than guilty of the white lie to avoid arguments with my spouse. Sometimes I think women force men to chose between being physical brutes or telling lies, because telling the truth can so often get you in trouble when all you want is a quiet house. It got Lawrence a boot in the head. Telling people what they want to hear so often seems so much kinder, to a selfish man who still wants to be kind.<br /><br />Garce<br /><br />Garceushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11160407485298015371noreply@blogger.com