tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9156334464585894857.post73085648581739869..comments2023-10-25T05:30:54.507-04:00Comments on Oh Get A Grip!: A Very Bad IdeaAshe Barkerhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03390519279886657608noreply@blogger.comBlogger5125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9156334464585894857.post-81077228774256958342011-04-27T11:36:51.270-04:002011-04-27T11:36:51.270-04:00And still I'm baffled by why sex is treated so...And still I'm baffled by why sex is treated so damned differently than any other biological drive. Why can't we be more like Bonobo monkeys and simply have sex when we want to, with whom we want to, without fearing judgment from others? Years ago I truly believed that by now, when my generation was the "oldies", we'd have done away with the sexual shaming of women, and full equality would have been achieved. I'm so deeply disappointed to see that not only has nothing changed for my own young adult children, but there are still people who believe firmly that no one should enjoy sex, because it is ONLY for procreation in marriage, therefore there is NO need for birth control services or abortions (which is an oxymoron because without birth control there is a need for more abotions.) Why have we so perverted what should be one of the most enjoyable experiences a body allows us to have?<br />And why do you still feel guilty for sex you had so many years ago?Fiona McGierhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13495707848048468428noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9156334464585894857.post-29343254514429810522011-04-26T02:08:05.995-04:002011-04-26T02:08:05.995-04:00Interesting story! And very understandable. Suppos...Interesting story! And very understandable. Supposedly animals simply mate when they feel like it, and we are mammals. Yet we are raised to believe that we should always make rational decisions about sex. Lisabet, I'm sure you're not the only one here who has done something on impulse that had long-term consequences.Jean Robertahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08805088081675965859noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9156334464585894857.post-49531321366668265832011-04-25T12:33:43.747-04:002011-04-25T12:33:43.747-04:00I'm always struck by how huge life changes oft...I'm always struck by how huge life changes often hinge on seemingly small choices. Interesting story!Kristina Wrighthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07206629885091637673noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9156334464585894857.post-77705719694853585922011-04-25T09:31:08.392-04:002011-04-25T09:31:08.392-04:00Hi, Garce,
No - I guess I've confused you. Th...Hi, Garce,<br /><br />No - I guess I've confused you. This was a different G.! I didn't get together with my dom until six months later. Probably I wouldn't have, though, if I hadn't broken up with J.Lisabet Saraihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05162514190572269660noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9156334464585894857.post-26756556095701597962011-04-24T21:27:45.804-04:002011-04-24T21:27:45.804-04:00hi Lisabet!
This is the first time you've eve...hi Lisabet!<br /><br />This is the first time you've ever explained how you met your dom. That's an interesting story - and you came to him. Whoa.<br /><br />I'm a little surprised though, to hear you speak of G as a selfish and arrogant man. I mean, maybe he was, I wouldn;t know, but after all your first novel is dedicated to him. He was your master and must have had a profound effect on you that has lasted you over the years just as certain individuals from my past still haunt me. <br /><br />You;re familiar with the themes in the novella I just wrote. I know that you experienced "subspace" with G and still he haunts you, which makes me curious about some of the ideas I'd been playing around with on the theme of sexual imprinting. It makes me wonder if there is a reality beyond my attempts at science fiction on this theme. Maybe there really is such a thing as sexual imprinting when you;ve been in that special subspace. What do you think? Maybe G is the realized Mack Daddy.<br /><br />Garce, always curious about youGarceushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11160407485298015371noreply@blogger.com