By Amber Skyze (Guest Blogger)
First I want to thank the Grip folks
for allowing me to be here today.
Now on to the subject. I wish I could
understand this, but I don’t. When I portray “other” women in
my books they’re usually the heroine’s good friends. They are
there for the heroine; to support her in a time of need. If the
heroine needs advice about a guy or what to wear, her best friend is
there. They talk about anything and everything.
You’d think after the experiences I
had in high school I’d go in the direction of making the “other”
women out to be bitches.
Growing up I was a painfully shy
person. The last thing I wanted was to draw attention to myself. I
had one best friend and our boyfriends were best friends. One of my
traits – loyalty. When you have my friendship I’ll be as loyal as
a Labrador retriever. Other girls called me a bitch, snob and other
mean things. I ignored them and tried to let their words hurt me. It
was my best friend who ended up causing me the most hurt.
One day when I was at her house and she
was at the hospital, I picked up the phone to use it. Her boyfriend
was on the phone talking to her. She was saying, “I want her out of
the house now. I don’t trust her. I don’t want her there alone
with you.”
To say I was devastated would be an
understatement. I’d never do anything with her boyfriend, even if I
didn’t have my own. It wasn’t in my blood to hurt someone in such
a way. That day ended our friendship for almost twenty years and I
was the one who reached out to repair it.
Even that experience didn’t jade me
from portraying women in a positive light.
That’s not to say that I haven’t
created women for the heroine to be jealous of, but most of them are
mistaken identity – sister, sister-in-law, cousin or wife of best
friend.
In the end the heroine learns it’s
nothing to be worried about and they move on.
The bottom line for me is to create a
sisterhood with my heroine and her friends. I don’t want to show
women in a negative light.
Bio
Bio
From a very young age, Amber Skyze began making up stories–the only child syndrome. Telling tall tales to all her friends she never dreamed of putting words on paper. In fact if anyone asked her if she would write when she grew up, she’d have laughed.It wasn’t until raising children and reading all those romances that she decided–hey, I can write these. HA! Easier said than done. When not crafting hot, steamy tales, this New York transplant now resides in Rhode Island with her husband, four children (who force her to work a day job), and three dogs.
She currently writes for Ellora’s Cave, Loose Id and is self-published.
www.amberskyze.com
http://amberskyze.blogspot.com
http://www.amazon.com/Amber-Skyze/e/B004G35HT6/
