Saturday, November 6, 2010

Bite Me! by Sommer Marsden

So Miss Charlotte asks me to guest blog on a topic that might as well be labeled as: *sound of crickets chirping*. First of all, on any topic, the writer wants to be engaging. Secondly, she wants to be different. Thirdly, she wants to be good.

So, Charlotte told me the topic and “she”—as in me—went blank.

It’s always the case for me, when dealing with an issue that makes me go blank, I simply figure I’ll tell the truth. The truth is, my kinky obsession is biting.

If you read any of my work, there is almost always a bite, a nip or a nibble at that crucial climactic moment. And that’s not intentional. It’s just so ingrained in my psyche that I write it without thinking. Let’s spy on me, shall we?

He smiled and then kissed me quiet, rocking up into me with powerful thrusts until my fingers dug into the leather of his headrest. He tugged at my sweater and freed me a bit, pulling the bra down so that it cradled my breasts. Chase’s mouth was searing when he sucked first one nipple then the other, giving me harsh sharp bites that drove me closer and closer to orgasm.

He bites me at the crux of my thigh. There will be marks but not blood. One day, I will ask him to puncture me, but for now the purple and pink tattoos of our sessions are enough.The marks of him eating me up that will last for days are a beautiful thing.

He pushes his big hands, hands I have fantasized about, under my ass and levers me higher. I kiss his shoulder, lick his neck. He tastes like salt and smoke and a hint of soap. I bite his ear and he groans, thrusting faster. His hands slide along me, touching me here and there. Pinching, pulling and he bites me gently on my neck. “I’d bite you harder but I’m guessing you don’t want any marks.”

His fingers bite into me and he pulls me down. And then his hands are everywhere. They push and pinch and stroke so fast I cannot follow and he is muttering. His cock is buried over and over again as deep as he can go. It is as if he wants to disappear into me. I love him just then. All over again, I remember why I thought I could. He rears up and bites the top of my arm and I come. Fast and hard, my cunt fists up around him and his eyes roll back.

Tada! Bela Lugosi’s not dead (thank you, Bahaus). He’s my sex slave. LOL.

In the erotica I’ve read, I don’t see a lot of biting. And I totally got called out one time on a board discussion due to the biting thing, risk of infection and all that jazz. Hey, I’m not talking about rabid gnawing, I mean controlled biting. However, as with most mainstream media, if you believe CSI, my biting fetish will lead to an embarrassing, albeit kinky death. I’m not sure why biting doesn’t get as much play as spanking, bondage, humiliation, etc. etc. etc. in erotica.

This kinky little fetish would make a person assume I am a vampire groupie. Um…wrong. I like the hairy guys who also have big toothsome grins that can clamp down on me at the exact right time and…[content deleted due to graphic nature].

Even more than the pain at that crucial moment are the marks that come with teeth. In more than one photo in my photo album you will see suspicious little bruises on my arms, neck, clavicle... "Oh, I bumped it, hit it, bruised it…moving boxes, books fell on me, I fell down.” Pick an excuse. The point is, for a lot us, the kink is in being marked. Though, for the record I do want to say, I bruise easily and I actually do tend to fall down for no apparent reason. It’s part of my charm.

To sum up: I dig the teeth and it shows up in my writing. I feel sort of like a loner on this because I don’t see it much. But when I get that inevitable erotica writer question: “Do you do everything you write about?” When it comes to marks and teeth and nibbles and bites I can say yes, and yes, and yes some more. (Except for paranormal stories because—dammit all—I have yet to meet an actual supernatural creature that wants to gobble me up).

As a side note: The man has a new dentist…the dentist told him that one of his front teeth is chipped in a way that it’s like a small shard—a knife, if you will. He wants to fix it.

I told the man the dentist and I might have to have words. That tooth stays the way it is—knife-like. Which leads me into the kinky power and potential of the blade…but that’s another blog.

16 comments:

  1. Sommer,

    Thanks for joining us at the grip. It's always a pleasure to write your thoughts. Now that you mention the whole biting obsession, I can see how it's been played out in so many of your short stories...

    Excellent blog.

    Best,

    Ash

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  2. Thx, Ash. I was a bit stumped. So I did my best. It's all a girl obsessed with teeth can do. :)

    XOXO
    S

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  3. "[content deleted due to graphic nature]"

    *Outraged scream*

    I'm a big fan of biting too. [scorching hot personal anecdote deleted just to get back at Sommer] I guess that I should write it more.

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  4. but...but...i am the guest! you should tell me EVERYTHING, KB! (o_O)

    XOXO
    S

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  5. I never went there, but I do like the idea. Hygeine be damned!!

    :)

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  6. Biting is cool. Duly noted. Actually a lot of people like it, including my partner.

    One of the less well-known kinks, incidentally, is toothlessness. I used to know a woman whose partner had lost his front teeth at a relatively young age in an accident (he'd been at agricultural college and, he once told me, fallen off a motor mower when driving it drunk at 2am, naked and covered in engine oil, but that's another story). He wore a dental plate most of the time but she was completely looked on toothless oral sex.

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  7. well, if you don't break the skin, hygeine isn't an issue. less so than with other sex acts, actually. breaking the skin is not the point (or the goal), the pleasure pain dealio is. So I think you are free to be chomped on, Jo. Or be the chomper. Whatever floats your boat. ;)~

    XOXO
    Sommer

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  8. Fulani,

    I actually had someone telling me about this the other day. However it was a toothless woman and a man receiving the attention. I guess I could understand that.

    But coming from the toothy side I could see more of the front ridge of the upper teeth pressing into the skin/over the mound during oral sex.

    I left that dirty detail in for Kathleen ;) lol

    XOXO
    S

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  9. Hi Sommer

    Thanks for being our guest. Hadn;t thought about the biting thing much outside of horror fiction, but now you;ve got me thinking.

    Garce

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  10. always nice to hear that you've triggered different kind of thinking, esp the dirty kind. the one snippet involves a sexual fetish *about* creatures found in horror fiction if that counts ;)

    xoxo
    S

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  11. I'm right with you on the biting, milady. For me, it doesn't always have to leave a mark, and if it does it doesn't need to be public. There's a beauty in the sensation of sucking (whatever it is you may have in your mouth), but the act of biting takes it that little step further. It's animalistic, it's base, it hints at danger. With a new lover, too, there's that element of wonder...just how much harder are those teeth gonna sink in?
    Mmmmm...
    As usual, ma'am, lovely blog.

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  12. Hi Sommer,

    Actually, I dig biting too. Possessive, sexy, needful, but controlled, biting.

    Yum.

    This was a very nice post, with some delicious excerpts to illustrate it.

    Thank you for sharing!

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  13. Hey, Sommer,

    Welcome to the Grip! I've been away, and now I'm catching up on all the fun you've been having this week.

    I'm not exactly obsessed with biting, but I definitely see the appeal. You'll find some of it in my stories, especially around the nipples -- or occasionally, even a little nip of the clit...!

    Warmly,
    Lisabet

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  14. I'm so hesitant to comment b/c the comments are at thirteen and that's my lucky number!

    Craig and Willsin, you totally nailed so much of what makes biting the ultimate turn on for me. Good to know I'm not so alone after all, I just put it in my writing...A LOT! X-D

    Lisabet, I hope you had fun while away, thanks for commenting and thanks for having me!

    XOXO
    S

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  15. Sommer,

    Now I am very glad that I didn't go with my original concept for my post - because this was the topic I was going with. LOL

    Biting and being bitten is so very sexy. Ohhhhh! But sadly, it's not a talent that comes naturally to some ... so many try to apply too much pressure, or don't hit that right spot. But when it is done right, and hits just that spot on the neck, oh hell ya!

    Michelle

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  16. Ooooh, Michelle, we could have had a 'bite-off' rawr. ;)~

    XOXO
    S

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